Thursday, 25 April 2013

Every cloud has a silver lining




'Adolescence is a period of rapid changes.
Between the ages of 12 and 17, for example, 
a parent ages as much as 20 years.' 
-Unknown


We are on the downhill slide with our Communications subject with the all our websites up and running.  It has been a huge learning curve for me having never even played with uploading information onto a website.  I still don’t have a Facebook site (and don’t tell Claire) never intend on having one.  I’m loving Twitter and the information you can easily find out there in the big wide world.  The other exciting thing happening is the closer we get to finishing this subject the closer I get to my holiday overseas in June.

The only black cloud on my horizon is my baby announcing he was moving out – on Mother’s Day!  Ironic really as my husband’s son moved out at the same age but on Father’s day.  I never thought I would get empty nest syndrome, after all when my husband and I met we had a ready-made family and couldn’t wait for this day, to be alone and to be able to do what I want, when I want.  Strange after so long.

The idea of never having to cook another sausage sizzle is very appealing however just typing this I can smell onions.  What will I do with every night free?  No football, less washing, being able to have a piece of toast for dinner because I can’t be bothered cooking. 

I will miss the hustle and bustle of a houseful of boys some staying a day and others who needed help stayed for months at a time. I’ll miss the screams of ‘What’s for dinner’ echoing down the hall as each entered the house in the afternoons.  The halls will be quiet.  My son can’t understand, “I’ll only be around the corner mum and I’ll still txt you when I’m hungry”, which I think on the wage he is on will be quite often.
 
Times are changing for all of us.  Soon I will be finished my Graduate Certificate, have an empty house but start on my exciting and long planned for travels.   My boys will have grown up and left the nest, I’m proud of them all, but secretly hope they will still need their mum – lots! 


Thursday, 4 April 2013

At your age.




“You don't stop laughing when you grow old, 
you grow old when you stop laughing.”
― George Bernard Shaw


Only a few days ago while having a chat with a friend at work those words slipped out of her lips…but you have a great figure for someone at your age!  Ok I know it was a compliment but why ‘at my age’. 

At your age….
you really should know better.
you shouldn’t dress like that.
you shouldn’t eat that.
you shouldn’t drink so much!

Why?   Who makes these rules?  I was told as a child that you can make your own rules when you’re an adult.  They lied, my wonderful parents lied.  There seems to be all these unwritten rules once you hit 40+ about what you should or shouldn’t do...…. at your age!   

At my age, and no I'm not telling you what that is, I have joined the social media world, enjoy all the bad habits I shouldn't have and started travelling the world.

I want to become one of those wonderful old people who love life and enjoy the eccentricities that are allowed and expected shocking my children and making people tut at me, although this seem to happen already.